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Thursday, March 3, 2011

Grief

I was passing our hospital's ER when I saw...

A man holding tightly to a loved one, crying his heart out. Sobbing, weeping. Clutching for some hope; some warmth; some life, to compensate the one that had been lost.

Everyone was walking past, carefree of his sorrows or rather too caring for their own. The cars drove. The passers-by walked.

And he stood there, clutching and weeping.
Over death.

And though I felt a strong urge to hug or console him in some way, I too like everyone else, walked on.
Too carefree of his sorrow? Or too caring of my own?

                                                                           *****
If man were immortal he could be perfectly sure of seeing the day when everything in which he had trusted should betray his trust, and, in short, of coming eventually to hopeless misery.  He would break down, at last, as every good fortune, as every dynasty, as every civilization does.  In place of this we have death.  ~Charles Sanders Peirce

3 comments:

  1. :( !
    Want to say smth...don't know what...

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  2. so sad....having been through so much grieving...myself...for family and friends that have lost their battles with cancer...
    i know all too well that some people just don't know what to say...or do...they get scared.
    but, OH, how good just a warm hug feels at times like this. no words even need to be spoken.

    strangers though...too many people nowadays just don't want to 'get involved'...they feel they have enough problems of their own.

    but if we just take a few seconds...and show each other we care...it's a good habit to get in to...

    :laura

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  3. yeah I know what you mean sadaf :s
    Laura, awesome of you to stop by. Great words, nice message! Thanks!

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